Wedding Vow Writing
Cheat Sheet

Step 1: Set the Tone

- Romantic & Heartfelt – Poetic, emotional, timeless.

- Playful & Sweet – A balance of love and humor.

- Spiritual or Faith-Based – Rooted in your beliefs.

- Simple & Genuine – Warm, sincere, straightforward.

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Step 2: Use These Prompts to Get Started

- I knew you were “the one” when…

- You inspire me because…

- My favorite memory with you is…

- I love that you…

- I promise to always…

- I can’t wait to…

 

Step 3: Keep in Mind

- Start Early – Give yourself weeks, not days.

- Aim for 1–2 Minutes – Short but powerful.

- Be Specific – Mention little quirks and habits you love.

- Add One Smile-Moment – A lighthearted line can break the tension.

- Write It Down – Have a printed copy ready for the big day.

- Practice Out Loud – Make sure it flows naturally.

 

Quick Structure You Can Follow

- Opening – Acknowledge the moment or your relationship.

- Past – A memory or turning point in your love story.

- Present – What you love most about them now.

- Promises – What you vow to do in the future.

- Closing – A heartfelt, memorable line to seal your words.

 

Final Thought

Your vows don’t have to be perfect—they just have to be yours.

Speak from your heart, stay true to who you are,

and your partner will remember them for a lifetime.